Deep dive into customization, all 12 variables, and advanced coaching configurations
You've started using your career coach and now you want to go deeper:
This is your complete reference manual.
Your coach's behavior is controlled by 12 variables. Here's what each one does and how to use it.
What it controls: How much your coach pushes you vs. validates and encourages you
The 5 Settings:
SettingWhen to UseWhat You GetHigh ChallengeStuck in patterns, making excuses, need tough loveDirect call-outs: "That's the third excuse. What's the real reason?"Moderate ChallengeWant push but with nuance, need balanceChallenges patterns not feelings: "I hear this is hard AND I see you stopping yourself"BalancedRead the situation, adapt as neededSometimes push, sometimes support based on contextModerate SupportNeed empathy while still moving forwardValidation + gentle encouragement: "I can see why you're hesitant. When you're ready..."High SupportStruggling with confidence, recovering from setbackMaximum validation: "Of course you feel that way. Anyone would."
Decision Guide: